THIS was hanging in front of my house! And I DIDN'T put it there! I thought I had the perfect marriage: 10 years together, and still dates, gifts, compliments, laughter, understanding, and amazing intimacy. I trusted my husband 10,000 percent. Until a month ago. It all started when Tim got promoted and hired a young new secretary. I never would've believed in such a dumb cliché, but with each passing day, my faith in us began to crumble. Late nights at work, sudden "business trips," the scent of